How do you deal with the jealousy of a 3 yr old to 5 wk old? - ok to mix dining chairs
I just had a baby boy of 10 € 5 weeks and I have a daughter, 13 years old, a 3-year-old daughter and a son 10 years old. My 13-year-old son, only so much with the attitude (Antoher total), based on the baby. The same applies for 10 years. My 3-year used to be an angel. "You hear that began seldom a tantrum, she was on the house and never came to anything that was not allowed. I had the baby came after 4 days and the devil is in my body, now aged 3 years and shows at least a dozen times a day. I am a nurse and need to complete the formula, so that power in May last one or two hours. At this point I can go and check that you are made of things. Recently I ahER room and sat her in her chair bathroom naked rear, all with hair-first-line treatment of CAP. Today I went to feed the baby and she went outside, the porch, I had to send my son to recover, and she came with her wet panties. She stood peeing in the middle of the court and. He pees in front of the toilet on the floor ..... Panties time. He opened a package of pudding mix and gelatin, which has spilled on the floor of the room. He bites and beats and screams loudly. It does nothing for the child, everyone. She has also collected some attitude problems of her sister.
Ideas of where they are still something special? We were sure it special and that ifthe baby is sleeping at night, they sit w / me and his father about their favorite comics. I do not know what I do for you?
Monday, February 15, 2010
Ok To Mix Dining Chairs How Do You Deal With The Jealousy Of A 3 Yr Old To 5 Wk Old?
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Encourage them to help with the child. Encourage them with a little help. So instead of sitting on the bench and she is jealous, "Mama help" and get a "big sister". I also breastfed, do not move in the understanding of the situation in time. I want them to eat the same hour, if possible. Why do not you let him feed the baby (w / help of course)? You could try to read particular books, so that its color, or maybe even a tea party if you have a free arm.
If you do it when its negotiating position W and the child, then she will not feel the need to capture their attention in other ways.
If he can not work the wages have consequences. If you normally do while it tries to see how we let go before they will fight. I think I try to give the answer. It seems strange, but I want something to happen and maybe she needs to see that things are equal. If there is bad and it is possible that she knows that it is not normal.
Whatever you are running in the rule for the sentence must and now. No TV, no cartoons, no question. Bad behavior can not prove a cry that she is special, but things are different. She believes the child had been exchanged and for bad behavior and away with him, proving themselves that they do not care. I know that I am me, but I bin 3
I hope this makes it senYes, because I think he wants to do only those things still too. It can not happen until the child is gone, but the rules could again, as they were. I hope you will feel better. Three years is difficult. Best of luck.
This behavior is quite normal for children if the house brothers. this does not mean it can not be stopped. You said that you are attentive, if not with the baby and that's good. I want to quit, because it is a way to encourage bad behavior. (it's quick start, as if I'm wrong, I'm the treatment that I am good to get) I would suggest buying a new doll. If you feed the baby, the baby cradled the baby, then change the child, telling him to do the same. for what they call the "mother" role in order to acquire the skills and act distracted while watching the child at the moment. It would also help with her real baby. To bring their blankets or diapers, so some things can co -UNT things like diapers, socks, and if it remains in play, and gives an important role. hopefully the time, these measures to minimize compeltely jelousy. Good luck and congratulations
I can totally relate to you because I have the same problems with my daughter when I had my twins.
I had my first child 2 ½ years ago and things have fit perfectly into our family. It was a big baby and was so good, as you read with your child. Then about a year and a half after his birth had twins and she loved. However, approximately 11 weeks, I again had twins. It is a completely different person. It seems almost depressed.
What I learned is that older siblings need more attention. I've tried to help him as much as possible and with my mother and my sisters and brothers in law came to see four young children to spend time with Alyse.
I can only recommend is to make itsme. Spend time with her as possible and make sure to maintain discipline, he or she goes, now, baby there.
Good luck!
Children need discipline to act urgently. I believe in discipline. He does this because they know they can and can not do nothing about it. You are an adult, no longer runs to 3 years, your house. She is a girl. They are adults. Do what you do. In certain whether correcting their behavior, so that they would never do such a thing again. Get the parents.
I was in a similar situation, I have 2 girls aged 4 years and 2 and when I was 7 months my son 2 years the same kind of thing gave me the thing with the baby. Do you want to change u May and helping to bathe the baby plenty of praise when you do what they asked. You may also be something to do while the child is fed in order to set out its tasks. Keep the old egg cartons and toilet rolls and activities in ur paint eat later when ur done u could help, and put them together to do things. X
They know most mothers, mothers to get a new baby, while others do not need more time for the new baby at a time to spend. all jealous because they think that they have forgotten them. My mothers friend had a baby, while the other was still 4, I think. and 4 years, all the jealousy and has even more to hear, then determine what was wrong and I tried to spend more time with age yeard 4th 1 weeks to 4 years old park, shopping, and as I have explained everything they would like at age 4, and the baby, and could grow if a friend 4 years never to be alone no more, mother said she could To make a fresh start for everyone to be a good family. was so nice when the 4 yesr-old said the baby, you have this toy or not, it is not just for older children. and do well together, and also 4 years old was the oldest mother says, at the age of 4 years to help with things and made them more responsibility for the child. and it was as if I should do this because they just so high a potato lol
I hope that helps gud luck =]
I'm trying to get involved in their activities with the child, and when you are prompted to change things and you keep everything the same, must perform a specific job for you and remember to praise. And make sure you still have a good time with her.
I think it can do nothing to be jealous, but do not know that they are now more possible deals with her baby. When you leave a child at this age in an era that will go bad. Even if you think that so much time to continue to play alone in front of the baby, knew it well that he went and he starts doing something wrong. Now he knows you are busy with the baby before and she will get through. Tho wetting is normal even if there is a big change like this, if I persevere and not be punished. It is obvious that it should be for your baby, I suggest that helping the word's oldest and ask you to even more. Or, if possible, when you sit to feed the baby by her favorite cArtoon and cuddling on the couch or sitting with her coloring book before you take while breastfeeding. What is the attitude that I do my best to fix it, and now also have a serious word with the SIS very pleased with their irresponsibility towards their younger brothers and sisters.
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